Dear brothers and sisters,
This past Tuesday I took a day off from pastoral duties to attend a retreat with the board of
Take the first view, the "as-long-as-my-child-loves-Jesus" view. What does it mean to "love Jesus"? Well, according to the Beloved One himself, this is what it means: "If anyone loves me, he will obey my teaching" (John 14:23). Now does that mean that we obey Jesus just in religious ways--going to church, saying prayers, and staying married? Or does that mean we obey Jesus in every way, all of real life? The answer is obvious. To love Jesus with all your heart, your soul, and your mind is to obey him everywhere in everything. Obedience to Jesus in religious ways is no less called for than obedience to Jesus in non-religious way, even cultural ways. So loving Jesus calls for more than just understanding religious life, it calls for an understanding of the world. Such an understanding is what we call education. So I don't think the "as-long-as-my-child-loves-Jesus" view is thoroughly Christian. In fact, I am convinced that one of the great entanglements for future Christians (think Hebrews 12:1 here) will be cultural disobedience. We will need to prepare our children to believe that they are not necessarily obeying Jesus because they only see movies rated PG. Isn't there an obedience to Jesus in how our children will think about childhood celebrity (eg. Hannah Montana)? Isn't there an obedience to Jesus in how our children will think about virtual friendships like Facebook? Isn't there an obedience to Jesus in how our children will think about buying something just because it is on sale? Yes. Yes. Yes. Cultural obedience to Jesus requires an education that teaches one to think Christianly about all of life.
Now there is also that other view, the "fit-and-function-in-this-world" view. I'd like to address this view but it will have to wait until next week. For now let me say this to all families at TBC: It is my hope that my place on the Mid-Vermont school board will bring much good to my ministry at TBC. I am not interested in recruiting but teaching and pastoring. Raising children is something many of us are doing right now. I hope we can do it together and together discover how a mind and heart is shaped to love and obey the Lord Jesus. For His name, John
